GAMBARAN ACCEPTANCE OF DATING VIOLENCE PADA DEWASA AWAL YANG MENJADI KORBAN KEKERASAN DALAM PACARAN
DOI:
https://doi.org/10.25170/manasa.v9i2.1965Keywords:
Acceptance of dating violence, Dating violence, Young AdolescenceAbstract
This study aims to determine how the description of acceptance of dating violence in victims of
dating violence. The description described concerns how the attitude and behavior of the victim
in acceptance of dating violence and the factors that influence it. The method used in this
research is a qualitative method with a phenomenological approach. The technique of selecting
participants using purposive sampling technique. Participants in this study were 4 people, aged
20-25 years and currently experiencing dating violence. The data collection technique used
was the interview technique, while the analysis technique used to process the data was the
Miles and Huberman analysis technique. The results of the study reveal that Acceptance of
dating violence occurs through 2 different processes. The first process involves putting up a
fight before giving rise to acceptance of dating violence. The second process is to do nothing
or surrender and immediately generate acceptance of dating violence. This process is based
on factors, namely shackling affections, feelings of helplessness, limitations in understanding
problems, expectations of protective figures, pre-married sex, views of family and other people,
and views of relationships (commitment, duration of relationship, and sense of responsibility)
References
World report on violence and health. (2002).
World Health Organization.
Retrieved Febuary 28, 2019, from
World Report on Violance and
Health:
https://www.who.int/violence_injur
y_prevention/violence/world_report
/en/full_en.pdf
Prevalence of teen dating violence. (2016).
National Institute of Justice.
Retrieved Febuary 1, 2019, from
National Institute of Justice:
https://www.nij.gov/topics/crime/int
imate-partner-violence/teen-datingviolence/pages/prevalence.aspx
Preventing teen dating Violence. (2014).
Centers of Disease Control and
Prevention. (National Center for
Injury Prevention and Control
Division of Violence Prevention)
Retrieved Febuary 28, 2019, from
https://www.cdc.gov/violencepreve
ntion/pdf/tdv-factsheet.pdf
Teen dating violence. (2019). Centers of
Disease Control and Prevention.
Retrieved February 28, 2019, from
https://www.cdc.gov/violencepreve
ntion/intimatepartnerviolence/teendatingviolence.html?CDC_AA_refVal=htt
ps%3A%2F%2Fwww.cdc.gov%2F
violenceprevention%2Fintimatepart
nerviolence%2Fteen_dating_violen
ce.html
Anesty, E. (2009). Konseling kelompok
behavioral untuk mereduksi perilaku
bullying siswa sekolah menengah
atas (penelitian eksperimen kuasi
terhadap siswa kelas xi sekolah
menengah atas negri 10 bandung).
UPI.
Bethke, T. M., & Dejoy, D. M. (1993,
March). An experimental study of
factors influencing the acceptability
of dating violance. Jurnal of
Interpersonal Violance, 8(1), 36-51.
Carver, J. M. (2003). Joseph M Carver,
Ph.D. Retrieved Febuary 27, 2019,
from Love and Stockholm
Syndrome: The Mystery of Loving
an Abuser: http://drjoecarver.makes
websites.com/clients/49355/File/lov
e_and_stockholm_syndrome.html
Courtain, A., & Glowacz, F. (2018). Explo
ration of dating violence and related
attitudes among ado lescents and
emerging adults. Journal of
Interpersonal Violence, 1-24.
Duvall, E. M., & Miller, B. C. (1985).
Marriage and family development
(6th ed.). New York: Harper & Row,
Publisher.
Ibrahim. (2015). Metodologi penelitian
kualitatif panduan penelitian beserta
contoh proposal kualitatif. Bandung:
CV. ALFABETA.
Guerra, G. N., Huesmann, L. R., & Spindler,
A. (2003). Community violance
exposure, social cognition, and
agression among urban elementary
school children. Child Development,
74(5), 1561-1576.
doi:10.1111/1467-8624.00623
Jackson, S. M., Cram, F., & Seymour, F. W.
(2000). Violance and sexual
coercion in high school student'
dating relationship. Journal of
Family Violance, 15(1), 23-36.
Kaura, S. A., & Lohman, B. J. (2007).
Dating violance victimization,
ACCEPTANCE OF DATING VIOLENCE KORBAN KEKERASAN 74
relationship satisfication, mental
health problems, and acceptability of
violance: a comparison of men and
women. Journal Family Violance,
22, 367-381. doi:10.1007/s10896-
007-9092-0
Kementrian Pemberdayaan Perempuan dan
Perlindungan Anak Republik
Indonesia. (2018). "Waspada bahaya
kekerasan dalam pacaran".
https://www.kemenpppa.go.id/indx.p
hp/page/read/31/1669/waspadabahaya-kekerasan-dalam-pacaran
Khaninah, A. N., & Widjanarko, M. (2016).
Perilaku agresif yang dialami korban
kekerasan dalam pacaran. Jurnal
Psikologi UNDIP, 2(12), 151-160.
Lewis, S. F., & Fremouw, W. (2001). Dating
violance: a critical review of the
literature. Clinical Psychology
Review, 21(1), 105-127.
Martsolf, D. S., Colbert, C., & Draucker, C.
B. (2012). Adolescent dating
violence prevention and intervention
in a community setting: Perspectives
of young adults and professionals.
The Qualitative Report 2012,
17(99), 1-23.
Miles, M. H. (1984). Analisis data kualitatif
terjemahan oleh tjetjep rohendi
rohidi. Jakarta: Penerbit Universitas
Indonesia.
O’Keefe, M., & Treister, L. (1998). Victims
of dating violence among high
school students. Violence Against
Women, 4, 195-22
Poerwandari, K. (2001). Pendekatan
Kualitatif untuk Penelitian Perilaku
Manusia. Jakarta: FP-UI.
Price, E. L., & Byers, E. S. (1999). The
attitudes towards dating violence
scales: Development and initial
validation. Journal of Family
Violence, 14, 351-375
Rachel, J. (2017). Kekerasan dalam pacaran,
waspadai sejak dini! Retrieved from
PKBI (Perkumpulan Keluarga
Berencana Indonesia):
https://pkbi.or.id/kekerasan-dalampacaran-waspadai-sejak-dini/
Ramadita, M. (2011). Hubungan Antara
Kecemasan Dengan Acceptance Of
Dating Violanve Pada Diri
Perempuan Dewasa Muda Korban
Kekerasan Dalam Pacaran di
Jakarta.
Santrock, J. W. (2002). Life Span
Development (Perkembangan Masa
Hidup (Vol. 2). (C. d. Damanik,
Trans.) Jakarta: Erlangga.
Santrock, J. W. (2011). Perkembangan
Masa Hidup (13 ed.). Jakarta:
Erlangga.
Schnurr, M. P., Lohman, B. J., & Kaura, S.
A. (2010). Variation in Late
Adolescents’ Reports of Dating
Violence Perpetration: A Dyadic
Analysis. Violence and Victims,
25(1), 84-99.
Segaf, Z., Yumpi, F., & Kursistin, P. (2009).
Memahami perempuan Bertahan
dalam kekerasan domestik, 1-17.
Sembiring, G., Sumiati, S., & Hartini, L.
(2014, Agustus). Kekerasan dalam
pacaran (KDP) pada remaja putri
usia 15-18 tahun di SMA
Muhammadiyah 4 Kota Bengkulu.
Jurnal Media Kesehatan, 8(2), 100-
204.
Shaffer, C. S., Adjei, J., Viljoen, J. L.,
Douglas, K. S., & Saewyc, E. M.
(2018). Ten-year trends in physical
dating violence victimization among
adolescent boys and girls in british
columbia, canada. Journal of
Interpersonal Violence, 1-18.
Shorey, R. C., Febres, J., Brasfield, H., &
Stuart, J. L. (2012). Male dating
violence victimization and
adjustment: the moderating role of
coping. American Journal of Men’s
Health, 3(6), 218-228.
Stets, J. E., & Pirog-Good, M. A. (1987).
Violence in dating relationship.
Social Pshycology Quarterly, 50(3),
218-228.
Sugiyono. (2012). Memahami penelitian
kualitatif. Bandung: CV.
ALFABETA.
Trifiani, N. R., & Margaretha. (2012).
Pengaruh gaya kelekatan romantis
dewasa (adult romantic attachment
style) terhadap kecenderungan untuk
melakukan kekerasan dalam
pacaran. Jurnal Psikologi
Kepribadian dan Sosial, 1(2), 105-
114.
Warkentin, J. B. (2008). Dating violence and
sexual assault among college men:
CoOccurrence, Predictors, and
Differentiating Factors.
World Health Organization.
Retrieved Febuary 28, 2019, from
World Report on Violance and
Health:
https://www.who.int/violence_injur
y_prevention/violence/world_report
/en/full_en.pdf
Prevalence of teen dating violence. (2016).
National Institute of Justice.
Retrieved Febuary 1, 2019, from
National Institute of Justice:
https://www.nij.gov/topics/crime/int
imate-partner-violence/teen-datingviolence/pages/prevalence.aspx
Preventing teen dating Violence. (2014).
Centers of Disease Control and
Prevention. (National Center for
Injury Prevention and Control
Division of Violence Prevention)
Retrieved Febuary 28, 2019, from
https://www.cdc.gov/violencepreve
ntion/pdf/tdv-factsheet.pdf
Teen dating violence. (2019). Centers of
Disease Control and Prevention.
Retrieved February 28, 2019, from
https://www.cdc.gov/violencepreve
ntion/intimatepartnerviolence/teendatingviolence.html?CDC_AA_refVal=htt
ps%3A%2F%2Fwww.cdc.gov%2F
violenceprevention%2Fintimatepart
nerviolence%2Fteen_dating_violen
ce.html
Anesty, E. (2009). Konseling kelompok
behavioral untuk mereduksi perilaku
bullying siswa sekolah menengah
atas (penelitian eksperimen kuasi
terhadap siswa kelas xi sekolah
menengah atas negri 10 bandung).
UPI.
Bethke, T. M., & Dejoy, D. M. (1993,
March). An experimental study of
factors influencing the acceptability
of dating violance. Jurnal of
Interpersonal Violance, 8(1), 36-51.
Carver, J. M. (2003). Joseph M Carver,
Ph.D. Retrieved Febuary 27, 2019,
from Love and Stockholm
Syndrome: The Mystery of Loving
an Abuser: http://drjoecarver.makes
websites.com/clients/49355/File/lov
e_and_stockholm_syndrome.html
Courtain, A., & Glowacz, F. (2018). Explo
ration of dating violence and related
attitudes among ado lescents and
emerging adults. Journal of
Interpersonal Violence, 1-24.
Duvall, E. M., & Miller, B. C. (1985).
Marriage and family development
(6th ed.). New York: Harper & Row,
Publisher.
Ibrahim. (2015). Metodologi penelitian
kualitatif panduan penelitian beserta
contoh proposal kualitatif. Bandung:
CV. ALFABETA.
Guerra, G. N., Huesmann, L. R., & Spindler,
A. (2003). Community violance
exposure, social cognition, and
agression among urban elementary
school children. Child Development,
74(5), 1561-1576.
doi:10.1111/1467-8624.00623
Jackson, S. M., Cram, F., & Seymour, F. W.
(2000). Violance and sexual
coercion in high school student'
dating relationship. Journal of
Family Violance, 15(1), 23-36.
Kaura, S. A., & Lohman, B. J. (2007).
Dating violance victimization,
ACCEPTANCE OF DATING VIOLENCE KORBAN KEKERASAN 74
relationship satisfication, mental
health problems, and acceptability of
violance: a comparison of men and
women. Journal Family Violance,
22, 367-381. doi:10.1007/s10896-
007-9092-0
Kementrian Pemberdayaan Perempuan dan
Perlindungan Anak Republik
Indonesia. (2018). "Waspada bahaya
kekerasan dalam pacaran".
https://www.kemenpppa.go.id/indx.p
hp/page/read/31/1669/waspadabahaya-kekerasan-dalam-pacaran
Khaninah, A. N., & Widjanarko, M. (2016).
Perilaku agresif yang dialami korban
kekerasan dalam pacaran. Jurnal
Psikologi UNDIP, 2(12), 151-160.
Lewis, S. F., & Fremouw, W. (2001). Dating
violance: a critical review of the
literature. Clinical Psychology
Review, 21(1), 105-127.
Martsolf, D. S., Colbert, C., & Draucker, C.
B. (2012). Adolescent dating
violence prevention and intervention
in a community setting: Perspectives
of young adults and professionals.
The Qualitative Report 2012,
17(99), 1-23.
Miles, M. H. (1984). Analisis data kualitatif
terjemahan oleh tjetjep rohendi
rohidi. Jakarta: Penerbit Universitas
Indonesia.
O’Keefe, M., & Treister, L. (1998). Victims
of dating violence among high
school students. Violence Against
Women, 4, 195-22
Poerwandari, K. (2001). Pendekatan
Kualitatif untuk Penelitian Perilaku
Manusia. Jakarta: FP-UI.
Price, E. L., & Byers, E. S. (1999). The
attitudes towards dating violence
scales: Development and initial
validation. Journal of Family
Violence, 14, 351-375
Rachel, J. (2017). Kekerasan dalam pacaran,
waspadai sejak dini! Retrieved from
PKBI (Perkumpulan Keluarga
Berencana Indonesia):
https://pkbi.or.id/kekerasan-dalampacaran-waspadai-sejak-dini/
Ramadita, M. (2011). Hubungan Antara
Kecemasan Dengan Acceptance Of
Dating Violanve Pada Diri
Perempuan Dewasa Muda Korban
Kekerasan Dalam Pacaran di
Jakarta.
Santrock, J. W. (2002). Life Span
Development (Perkembangan Masa
Hidup (Vol. 2). (C. d. Damanik,
Trans.) Jakarta: Erlangga.
Santrock, J. W. (2011). Perkembangan
Masa Hidup (13 ed.). Jakarta:
Erlangga.
Schnurr, M. P., Lohman, B. J., & Kaura, S.
A. (2010). Variation in Late
Adolescents’ Reports of Dating
Violence Perpetration: A Dyadic
Analysis. Violence and Victims,
25(1), 84-99.
Segaf, Z., Yumpi, F., & Kursistin, P. (2009).
Memahami perempuan Bertahan
dalam kekerasan domestik, 1-17.
Sembiring, G., Sumiati, S., & Hartini, L.
(2014, Agustus). Kekerasan dalam
pacaran (KDP) pada remaja putri
usia 15-18 tahun di SMA
Muhammadiyah 4 Kota Bengkulu.
Jurnal Media Kesehatan, 8(2), 100-
204.
Shaffer, C. S., Adjei, J., Viljoen, J. L.,
Douglas, K. S., & Saewyc, E. M.
(2018). Ten-year trends in physical
dating violence victimization among
adolescent boys and girls in british
columbia, canada. Journal of
Interpersonal Violence, 1-18.
Shorey, R. C., Febres, J., Brasfield, H., &
Stuart, J. L. (2012). Male dating
violence victimization and
adjustment: the moderating role of
coping. American Journal of Men’s
Health, 3(6), 218-228.
Stets, J. E., & Pirog-Good, M. A. (1987).
Violence in dating relationship.
Social Pshycology Quarterly, 50(3),
218-228.
Sugiyono. (2012). Memahami penelitian
kualitatif. Bandung: CV.
ALFABETA.
Trifiani, N. R., & Margaretha. (2012).
Pengaruh gaya kelekatan romantis
dewasa (adult romantic attachment
style) terhadap kecenderungan untuk
melakukan kekerasan dalam
pacaran. Jurnal Psikologi
Kepribadian dan Sosial, 1(2), 105-
114.
Warkentin, J. B. (2008). Dating violence and
sexual assault among college men:
CoOccurrence, Predictors, and
Differentiating Factors.
.png)
.png)
